About Michele Borba

Michele Borba, Ed.D. is the author of UnSelfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About Me World, and is an internationally renowned educational psychologist and a recognized expert in parenting, bullying, youth violence, and character development and author of 23 books including her new release, THRIVERS: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine. She is a regular NBC contributor who appears regularly on TODAY and has been featured as an expert on Dateline, The View, Dr Phil, NBC Nightly News, Fox & Friends, Dr. Oz, and The Early Show. She lives in Palm Springs, CA with her husband, and is the mother of three grown sons. Dr. Borba is a member of the PedSafe Expert team

Website: http://www.micheleborba.com

Articles by Michele

How to Raise a Confident, Assertive Child

How to Raise a Confident, Assertive Child

Last updated on November 17th, 2017 at 11:34 pmLet’s face it. It’s a tougher time to be growing up, and the data confirms it. Bullying is fiercer. Peer pressure is tougher. Kids are also more aggressive at younger ages. Girls are meaner. Of course we can’t always be there to pick up the pieces or help our kids stand up for themselves, nor should we. After all, the more our children see us as... 

2017 Parent Empathy Pledge: Focus on the “Other” Report Card

2017 Parent Empathy Pledge: Focus on the “Other” Report Card

Last updated on May 3rd, 2018 at 05:24 pm Now that the fall semester is underway, it won’t be long until your child’s progress report arrives, revealing not only their academic proficiency, but their conduct report as well. Studies confirms that children today are more self-centered than ever—and it’s a big problem. It’s why I urge parents to recognize the importance of raising empathic kids,... 

6 Reasons to Stop the “Every Kid Gets a Trophy” Epidemic

6 Reasons to Stop the “Every Kid Gets a Trophy” Epidemic

Last updated on August 21st, 2017 at 11:14 am Just pretend:  The sports season just ended and you and the other parents are bursting with pride watching each child receive a participation trophy with their teammates. Of course, we hate to see our children disappointed, so when we notice every kid holding a golden statue, we utter a collective parent sigh: “Oh, good, they all feel special!” Phew! But... 

How to Protect Kids From Online Predators

How to Protect Kids From Online Predators

Last updated on March 12th, 2018 at 09:13 amTroubling research about our kids’ lack of online smarts and predators’ new grooming techniques to lure them. Advice based on studies to keep kids safer online and parents and child givers better educated. Studies show that predators are using more subtle and savvier ways to “befriend” kids including pretending to be another teen or child as a means... 

How to Raise Self-Reliant Kids: Strategies That Work

How to Raise Self-Reliant Kids: Strategies That Work

Last updated on August 12th, 2017 at 05:10 pmParenting strategies to help kids solve their problems, be self-reliant, bounce back from failure and not use us as their managers, arbiters and google maps for life A mom was running late as she drove her two sons to school. “Can we pleeeease go back?” her six-year-old pleaded. “I forgot my stamps for show-and-tell.” Any other day, this mom would... 

Kids Watch & Copy Everything! 50 Ways to Be a Great Example

Kids Watch & Copy Everything! 50 Ways to Be a Great Example

Last updated on June 3rd, 2017 at 09:12 pmOf course we want our children to become good, responsible, respectful and successful human beings! But in our quest to “do it all” we may forget that some of the most powerful ways to help our children aren’t in the things we buy but in the simple things we say. Example is everything. In fact, the Greek philosopher, Aristotle, years ago said that the...