About Michele Borba

Michele Borba, Ed.D. is the author of UnSelfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About Me World, and is an internationally renowned educational psychologist and a recognized expert in parenting, bullying, youth violence, and character development and author of 23 books including her new release, THRIVERS: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine. She is a regular NBC contributor who appears regularly on TODAY and has been featured as an expert on Dateline, The View, Dr Phil, NBC Nightly News, Fox & Friends, Dr. Oz, and The Early Show. She lives in Palm Springs, CA with her husband, and is the mother of three grown sons. Dr. Borba is a member of the PedSafe Expert team

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Articles by Michele

Nine Ways We Can Create Safer Schools for Our Kids

Nine Ways We Can Create Safer Schools for Our Kids

Last updated on June 5th, 2018 at 03:01 pm MORAL IQ TIP: Violence is learned, but so too is calmness. Ask yourself: if my child only had my example to watch, what would he catch today? Over these past few months I’ve received countless letters from parents who share a deep concern about the safety of their children’s schools. So if you’ve had a few worry pangs, believe me, you’re not alone.... 

Nine Simple Mommy Secrets to Minimize Sibling Jealousy

Nine Simple Mommy Secrets to Minimize Sibling Jealousy

Last updated on May 30th, 2017 at 09:38 pmI’ll never forget the time one of my kids accused me of one of the truly Deadly Mommy Sins: “Loving the Other Brother More.” To make things even worse, my girlfriend was the one to convey my youngest child’s feelings to me. “Did you know that your youngest, precious child thinks you love your second offspring more?” I can remember not only her words,... 

What To Do If You’re Concerned About Your Kid’s Friends

What To Do If You’re Concerned About Your Kid’s Friends

Last updated on May 30th, 2017 at 09:39 pmBad friends. It’s every parent’s worst nightmare: we imagine only the worse: drugs, smoking, sex, trouble with the law. But what should parents do if they notice that their daughter is hanging out more with a kid whose values don’t seem in sync with their own? Is there ever a time when you should forbid your son from being with a particular friend? The... 

Warning Signs Your Child Is Being Bullied …And What To Do

Warning Signs Your Child Is Being Bullied …And What To Do

Last updated on March 2nd, 2018 at 01:34 pm REALITY CHECK: Research finds that 49 percent of kids say they’ve been bullied at least once or twice during the school term, but only 32 percent of their parents believed them.  One study found that one out of every four children will be bullied by another youth in school this month. If your child is bullied, it means that peers are intentionally causing... 

A Simple Mommy Secret:  4 Steps to Stop Your Little Biter

A Simple Mommy Secret: 4 Steps to Stop Your Little Biter

Last updated on May 30th, 2017 at 09:42 pmDo you have a biter on your hands? Biting is among the most bothersome and embarrassing kid behaviors. I remember the horror the first time I saw one child in our playgroup bite – I quickly learned that biting is usually temporary, and much more common than I had thought. The other moms and I read up on biting behavior, and shared what we’d learned... 

The Simple Mommy Secret to Boosting a Child’s Self-Esteem

The Simple Mommy Secret to Boosting a Child’s Self-Esteem

Last updated on May 30th, 2017 at 09:43 pmWhen my two youngest children were preschoolers we had a family trauma: our youngest son, Zach, was the same height as our middle son, Adam. The comments from strangers, “Oh, what cute twins!” were certainly not boosting Adam’s confidence. In fact, his self-esteem was taking a steep nose-dive. Why would any five-year old want anyone to think his three-year...